Saturday, February 12, 2011

Some news from Boyfriend and I.

Boyfriend and I just wanted to let everyone know that we’ve decided to go our separate ways. Very sad for both of us, but also the right thing to do.

Boyfriend and I have been together 6 years and from the day we first met we have been best friends.  We have been an amazing support for each other and have nothing but respect. This won’t change. We’ve done some really cool things together, had an absolute ball and achieved so much so we are pretty damn proud of ourselves and our time together.

Our families and friends have been truly phenomenal the last few days as we’ve let them all know. It’s been really difficult as we appreciate so much how close and connected we are to each others loved ones. Can not thank you all enough for your love and support.

The best part is that we are both on the same page; there was no mistake made, no big fight, no drama involved. We both just understand that we would be happier if we went our separate ways. So as far as break-ups go we are at the top of the class.

The next few weeks and months are going to be real hard, no question about it, but we are both very committed to making this as easy on each other as possible. And it’s a promise we will both keep.

And unfortunately for Boyfriend, you are sure to hear all about it here on St. Murphy.

And apologies that we are letting you know via this page. Its kinda like ripping the BandAid off and letting everyone know all at once. We hope you understand.


St. Murphy and Boyfriend

Who said gays couldn't have children...  Jackson & Sam


Hamish von Trapp said...

big hugs to both of you - will see you tonight?

Nicstar said...

awww sad to hear that you are having to go through this, but glad for you that its not got the drama and shit all about it. Big hugs to you. x

Ms Styling You said...

Sending you both lots of love and the biggest of hugs xxx

SawHole said...

Happy to send you Miss Charisma's Meerkat soft toy if you need hugs.

Cal said...

I love you Steve Murphy! Your support network will not falter (crying as i write this though....) xxxx

Thoughts said...

I am really sad and sorry to hear ....... I do not know what else to say except huge big hug to you...... may loving energy surround you. xxxoooo Love Carmela

So Now What? said...

Oh. I don't want to say sorry but sorry. always sucks when something comes to an end. I know you've got lovely friends down there and if I could teleport a big kiss and hug I would. xxx

reality raver said...

That is no good, but once you feel you can dip your toe back in the dating world, I will look forward to reading all about it here.

PS How are the dogs taking it?

4 kids, 20 suitcases and a beagle said...

That's how grown up break up. Very cool. Very chic. I like your style.


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